I had to pay extra for it.
My MINI came with it for free for 3 years... Even my Durango, and 3 previous Dodge cars came with it for at least 1 year. (I used to be Mopar or NoCar...

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I bought the Nissan gold "warranty" because the dealer assured me that many many things were *not* covered under the "standard" warranty. (they showed me a list!) So, I went for it, and, when the package came in the mail it came with 2 roadside assistance phone number cards good for 5 years/100K miles (one for each driver I assume). I have never owned a Nissan or any other Japanese made car before and so I bought the warranty, even though I can fix most minor issues myself. :-[ It will pay for itself the first time I get towed for a major issue. (if THAT ever happens! LOL!!) Additionally, it comes with Trip interruption reimbursement if you are more then 100 miles from your residence.
To me it seems Nissan is nickel and diming new customers at every occasion, compared with some of the other car makers. Not that I am unhappy, at least my dealer was up front about it. (sorry you had such a crappy dealer expierience None)